Lord of Frost and Flour

When a child says, “I love you,” there is a definite tug on the heart strings. And when we express our love to God, it is equally appreciated.

Kids have cute ways of saying, “I love you.” Maybe it’s a handmade card covered with stickers, a whispered bedtime confession, or a clumsy but heartfelt hug. Parents have their own ways, too. Writer Katie McLaughlin, on her parenting website, PickAnyTwo.net, lists 36 ways parents can say “I love you” to their children. Words are always a good thing, but when you also give them your time, care for them, or give them physical touches like hugs, pats and kisses, children are going to feel that they are safe and loved.

As important as parental affirmation is for children, it is the children’s “I luv you’s” that tug on the heartstrings. Somehow, the attempts of a 3-year-old to express love can be more endearing and meaningful to the parent than vice versa. But, when a child says, “I love you, daddy,” or “I love you, mommy,” the heart is warmed. No doubt about it.

One way a child expresses love is to help in the ...